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8 Signs Your Pet Feels Deeply Connected to You

A dog at a park looks back at its owner while exploring, demonstrating the 'secure base' behavior.
A curious beagle puppy looks back at its owner for reassurance while exploring the grassy park.

03 They Use You as a “Secure Base”

In developmental psychology, human children use their caregivers as a “secure base” from which to confidently explore the world. Research confirms that our pets do the exact same thing.

When scientists adapted the famous Mary Ainsworth “Strange Situation” test for domestic dogs, they found that dogs are far more likely to explore novel environments and interact with new puzzle toys when their owner is present.

If you take your pet to a new environment—like a crowded park or the veterinarian’s office—you might notice them periodically checking in with you.

They might sniff a new object and immediately look back at your face, or retreat to lean against your legs when startled.

Returning to your side before moving forward proves they view you as their anchor of safety.

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  1. Excellent. Glad to be reassured that both, my rescued cat and dog, are happily attached. They provide great joy and companionship. Both are allso attached to each other, even when Gingie has been with me years before Beba, behaving exactly like siblings.

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